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Fistula Friends Meet Here!

#1 User is offline   fistulette 

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Posted 26 April 2006 - 12:13 PM





It dawned on me that I should start a Yahoo or Google group for anal fistula support, to take this topic to its own discussion. I've been trying to do so, but unfortunately both services block any groups with the word "anal" in the title! I want to make sure that the group will come up easily using the search term "anal fistula," so I have written to see if either service will grant an exemption. I think I will also check out the resources for starting a message board. If anyone has any suggestions on staring a proper "fistula forum," please let me know.

Anyway, as you can probably guess, I am headed towards fistula surgery (May 22.) I have learned so much from the closed thread, and have been thrilled to find at least ONE place on the net where people are talking about this candidly. Thank you all SO VERY MUCH for sharing your experiences.

Anyway, until we can get a more appropriate fistula-oriented forum going, hopefully we can continue to support each other here.
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Posted 26 April 2006 - 06:16 PM

Hello Fistuletta and thanks for the invite!

I went back to the old thread to say "hello" to my old "fistula-fighting friends" and found out that the thread was closed.
I have mixed emotions about it because I have guilt (yes bad I know) that I feel so well that I rarely think about my fistula "ordeal." On the other hand I miss the cameraderie that came from knowing I was in the fight "together" with some pretty special people and I remember with a fond heart the support they provided to me when I was battling with my first fistula.

I want to publicly again thank blueskys, my first connection, as well as fistulaNewbie, MediaLuna (aka mother fistula w affection!), scottishlass (wish I knew how she was), jdavid, englishlass (another lassie from across the pond), cycleman, darth trini, obsessedwabscess, wondermom, ruffio, olaola (china), neil, fistulainSD, Brianp, Fissure&Fistula, elisa, etc etc.... It was truly a cast of characters and I miss reading about others and chiming in every now and then.

I think there is a definite need for people who have fistulas to commiserate and learn from each other. It is not an easy subject to talk about but the relative safety of the keyboard makes it easier.

It was nice talking to you and thank you for the interest and invite. My best!!
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Posted 26 April 2006 - 06:47 PM

Hi, everyone. Yes, you folks were all immensely helpful to me as well. I hope the old thread remains searchable since it has some really useful information!

Meanwhile, an update on me. Had surgery on Jan 24. Last time I saw the doc was about 1 month ago. At the time, she said everything looked great. I'm set to see her again in 1 month (so 2 months between visits).

Right after my visit, my pain/etc went almost completely away. About 2 weeks ago, I started having bleeding during BMs. This happened for about a week. I called the doc's office a few times and they insisted as long as it was only during BMs and not at other times it was fine and normal (even though I hadn't bled in a long time). Anyway, it seems to have stopped bleeding now the last week. It seems like it's itching again and scratching a little, which I hope is the wound closing again (the one I must have at least slightly re-opened a couple weeks ago).

We shall see! Still doesn't feel normal, and I take things very carefully in that area http://ibsgroup.org/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif I also still do soak but not as often as before. Hopefully things will continue to get better and I'll get another good report on May 23 (knock on wood).

And thanks for the invite, fistulette. Don't worry - your surgery will go fine. Doctors are amazing these days! The worst part is the worrying and the lack of info coming out of many docs. Post questions here. I assume we'll get emails when posts are made so you should be able to get answers.
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Posted 26 April 2006 - 07:12 PM

I am more than happy to report that my fistula woes are history!

I had my surgery (low and shallow fistula) done in late January and the healing has been easy.

The hardest part was the worrying and waiting. It's a big relief off your head once it's done. I worried and obsessed for nothing.

I'm a really busy Mom and medical office manager with no time for pain and suffering...But also, I'm a firm believer in attitude and positivity. They affect your physical body in very significant ways.

So, good luck. I did find this forum to be awesome. I'm happy to learn that my experience was helpful to others.

My best wishes for good health and recovery to all.

Eileen
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Posted 26 April 2006 - 11:57 PM

Hi, I am mostly healed. Sometimes I still soak and bleed. I am much better though. My doctor told me to take metamucil for the rest of my life but I don't like taking it so I eat a high fiber diet. I am suppose to go back to the doctor soon so we will see what happens. Good luck, Alta
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Posted 27 April 2006 - 06:45 AM

Hi Fisulette: http://ibsgroup.org/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
So glad that you opened up this thread and thanks for the invite! I also went back to the old thread and found that it was closed, but at least you can still view all the posts. There was a lot of excellent information there and wonderful support. Maybe they felt it was just getting too large for people to go thru and read it all.

I just went back to the surgeon this past Monday, I am 5 1/2 months post op. I still have seepage after having a bm. My doctor says that I am healed from the fistula but I have a small crater like that did not fill completely in from where he cut me. He says that I am healed from the inside. I thought I was still open from the incision but he says that my muscle down there has become weaker from the surgeries, which he says is normal. He doesn't recommend surgery again, because it said it could make things worse. He said there is a slight chance that it could fill in more with time. Not happy with dealing with this, but I know that it could be worse. It is definately better than having the abscess/fistula. I wonder if anyone else has this same problem after having this surgery.

Thanks again for the invite and starting up this new thread. Good Luck with your upcoming surgery, I am sure everything will go fine for you. You will get great support here and If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask away.

Fistula Pain & Worry: It sure was good to see your post and know that you are still hanging around. You know you have a special place in my heart. Whenever I see a bottle of wine now, I think of you. Congratulations on your total recovery!!!!!! I am glad that I was able to help you. In turn you have helped so many others. Its people like you and all the others that will make this thread a Powerful Support Group for Fistula Sufferers!

Once again Fistulette Thanks for the Invite and I think it is great that you started this new thread! And I think it is Great for all of you that have recovered but continue to come back and post to let others know that we will WIN this Fight against Fisutlas! Good Luck to all of you and Best Wishes!

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Posted 27 April 2006 - 11:11 PM

Thank you all so much for coming over to the new thread. I notice the old one closed after exactly one year, probably automatically. Anyway, I read the entire thread, and I feel as if I'm meeting my new friends for the first time! I'm rooting for you all to stay fistula-free.

Anyway, it warmed my heart to see all your replies this morning. Especially since I had a rough night. My dad had a very minor procedure Tuesday morning and by Wednesday night he had a terrible complication, was very ill, and nobody knew what was wrong! But they fixed him that night, and he's good as new today (Thursday). Whew!

Naturally this doesn't do anything great for my worry level about my own "very minor" surgery! But with you guys and all the info you've given me beforehand, I'll be able to get through it. I know it!

I promise I will give you my fistula details tomorrow. It's way past my bedtime and I still haven't had dinner. I just wanted to say thanks for coming and thanks for being there!
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Posted 28 April 2006 - 08:47 AM

Thank you as well Fistulette [what a name!!] for the invite to check out the new thread.

Just in the brief [I am at work http://ibsgroup.org/infopop/emoticons/icon_wink.gif ]

I am 47 years old, and have been dealing with bowel issues since age 24. Diagnosed with IBS [D prominent] for many years when I began having more and more bile, blood [to the point of anemia] and pain.

Several years ago I had my first fistula. I am fortunate [if one can call any of this fortunate] that my fistula's present close in to the rectum. Fistulectomy by a wonderful Colo-recal surgeon who informed me that I should seek my GI and be checked for Crohns as he saw evidence or things that made him concerned in that area.

Subsequent colonoscopies and biopsies show inflammation and still no diagnosis of Crohns.

Several years, and several colonoscopies later fistula number two became apparent. Fistulectomy number two.

Still no diagnosis [after switching docs] of Crohns, inflammation still noted, however.

At this time I do believe I am working toward fistula numero three. I have the pain, I have the bile, I have the 'can't get myself clean' leakage issue. I really need to get in and have myself checked again, but am procrastinating on this. Why? Even I don't know the answer to that one.

Fistulette, thank you for opening up this thread again. I appreciate it, as I am sure others do.

EILEEN...good attitude! I like it.

Happy weekend to you all

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Posted 28 April 2006 - 09:59 AM

Hey can I join? http://ibsgroup.org/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

I've had a total of 3 fistulas in life. The first was in 2004, and repaired via traditional fistulotomy. My 2nd was a recto-vaginal fistula which I was able to close with high doses of cipro and Humira. My third went to the skin again, but closed with the same med combo. I seem to grow one every spring, and have that familiar ache in my right butt cheek going on right now. Hopefully nothing pops through anywhere it's not welcome!

Anyway, good to meet you all.
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Posted 28 April 2006 - 11:23 AM

I wanted to post about my experience with the new plug procedure for fistulas. I had posted previously but as I've read the old thread closed. So, here's my experience with the procedure I had last month. First, let me start by saying--this was a 2 part procedure. First of all, in January I went to see my colo-rectal surgeon because I was having drainage from a pin-sized hole (maybe a bit bigger)to the right side of my vagina. But this was on the outside skin (not inside the vagina) and it would become very tender and I'd feel pressure there from time to time and then it would drain--the process would repeat like that. So, they first put a seton in. That procedure didn't really require a bowel prep. I went in and when I woke up, there was a rubber string that had been placed in the tract. I could see a rubber string out of the opening that had been tied off with sutures. It remained there for 8 weeks.

The plug part of the procedure was a little more involved. What you need to know is, you'll have to do a bowel prep for the 2nd part of the procedure. Also, the plug has to adjust to the body since it is a synthetic/foreign substance. I had to take 2 doses of ORAL Flagyl before the surgery and then my doctor said, no heavy lifting, etc for 2 weeks. Even getting in and out of the car/bathtub, etc was going to be an issue. They didn't want to dislodge the plug. The other thing is I had to apply Flagyl creme (This is a compound medication where they take a flagyl pill and it's crushed up into powder and mixed into an ointment) to apply 2x daily to the outside opening. The worst part of this was that they numb the inside of the area where they put the plug and all surrounding areas, so you can't feel your insides for a day or so, which is weird when you have to go to the bathroom Also, due to the bowel prep, you have to be on clear liquids the day prior and then afterward--(they didn't tell me this part in advance)you can only have liquids for 48 hours after the plug placement. That means, pudding and soup and drinks. So, I was STARVING!!! I lost about 7 lbs. due to the prep and no real food for essentially 4 days.

The plug area was tender for about 3 weeks after. My doctor said it should drain for up to 2 weeks after the plug had been placed. I didn't notice any drainage at all. My doctor had said the fistula tract had closed with the help of the seton. So, now, if I touch the area where the plug is, I can feel a firm place under the skin. It worked out. So far, so good.

I am supposed to follow up with her next month for her to take a look at it. The most awkward part of the procedure was a room full of people in the operating room all waiting for you to lay face down on the table with your ass in the air--and you lay like that until the drugs hit and you go out. All in all not a bad experience. For me, it seems to have worked. This wasn't the easiest procedure in terms of all that was required afterwards. Lots of care with physical activity and even food. After the 48 hours of liquids, you have to stay on a high-fiber diet for 2 weeks (which I kind of didn't really do--but then I have Crohn's, so I don't usually have trouble going to the bathroom), they don't want you to strain! They worry the plug will be dis-lodged there as well. I recommend this procedure, in spite of being hungry and the maintainance. It's worth it!

I'd say total cost was $17,000 for plug and $14,000 for the seton placement. Insurance is a blessing--but still very expensive procedure. My doctor had never done this one, but consulted with another team of docs who had.
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Posted 28 April 2006 - 12:37 PM

Welcome and heck yes you can join Beta.

I'm so tickled to see you back here. As I said, I have thought of you so often, especially as I am looking at this next fistula [say it isn't so], and wondering about you.

Again, you made my day.

Karen

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Posted 29 April 2006 - 03:00 PM

http://www.ibsgroup.org/ubb/graemlins/wave.gifthankyou fistulette for starting this new thread and hello to all !

nice to see everyone is doing ok.take care,
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Posted 01 May 2006 - 04:07 PM

Thanks for starting the new thread.

I am still waiting for the next step,decided to find a new surgeon, more accessible and friendlier. Tomorrow's visit at the new surgeon should give me more details.
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Posted 02 May 2006 - 01:34 PM

Okay, here's my "fistory," finally. First I'll summarize, then I'll get into some details after.

In November 2003 I got a rectal abscess which burst and turned into a fistula. It happened "for no reason" (I don't have Crohn's that I know of, wasn't pregnant, etc. I do have celiac disease and a lot of food sensitivities.) I had a draining tract for 7 months, with a couple occasions where it briefly closed, but the abscess re-formed immediately and burst. I was about to have surgery -- and then it cleared up spontaneously. The abscess didn't come back for 2 weeks, so we cancelled the surgery. Well, almost exactly a year went by, then the abscess suddenly came back, with the draining fistula soon following. Without knowing what I know now, I hoped it would clear up again. I went around another 9 months with this thing draining. It was annoying, but didn't cause me pain. Then one day in April it suddenly got worse -- the tract had NOT closed up, but it was suddenly giving me pain, was swollen, was draining more, and my internal sphincter muscle was clenching all the time (ouch!) So I went back to the surgeon and scheduled surgery for May 22. This time he gave me an info sheet that informed me I wouldn't be stitched up, and I was all, "How is THAT gonna work?" So that's how I ended up here.

So now here's some additional info that some might find useful.

INITIAL MISDIAGNOSIS: I find it comforting that I'm not the only one here who didn't get proper diagnosis or care at first. I was uninsured when the abscess first appeared, so I had to go to the walk-in clinic. Well, that was a complete waste of my time and money! The doctor:

1. Failed to see or mention that it was a rectal abscess, and not just a "boil" like I thought. She did not drain it, or send me somewhere to get it drained, like any reasonable doctor should have done.
2. She gave me inappropriate antibiotics (since they virtually never clear up abscesses) and told me if I was lucky, it'd go away (probably untrue).
3. Then she gave me the completely contradictory advice to hot compress the site, which would encourage the abscess to burst (although she didn't tell me that part!)

I've spent a lot of time angry about this, and wondering whether if it had been drained properly at first, whether I would have still gotten the fistula. But I've concluded, it probably has to do with how it forms inside, not what happens on the outside, so I probably would have gotten it regardless.

I did eventually go to an M.D. who referred me to a colorectal surgeon, so I feel I'm in experienced hands now. I thought that I was some very rare case that I healed up for a year like I did, but now I realize reading this thread that many people have had similar experiences -- where the abscess goes away for a time, and the tract may close, but it all eventually recurs. The surgeon never told me people have this type of appearing/disappearing abscesses all the time.

NATURAL REMEDIES: Rewind a bit -- here I was a couple days later with a burst abscess, which I had no idea had the potential to turn into a fistula. I thought everything would be cool now that it had burst. But then it just didn't clear up as quickly as one would expect. So over the time that I've had this, I tried a whole bunch of natural remedies. Obviously, none of them worked, although acupuncture DOES produce a healing response in the area (but did not heal the tract in my case). For the record, here's what I tried:

1. First I tried internal immune-stimulating and/or antibiotic/antiviral herbs like Echinacea, Goldenseal, Grapefruit Seed Extract, Oil of Oregano, etc. Well, since antibiotics don't clear up abscesses, it's unlikely that natural antibiotic agents would do anything either. And they didn't.
2. Then I tried going to bed with bentonite clay compresses. The idea being it would suck the infection out of the wound. This caused some initial improvement (I think it did draw some infection out) but obviously didn't heal the tract. I got tired of going to bed with mud pies in my panties and gave up after a month or so.
3. I tried some kind of super aloe supplement which was supposed to heal your digestive tract. It was insanely expensive and I pretty much knew it wouldn't work (the website was a big tipoff), but I was desperate.
4. I tried an ayurvedic herb blend called "Ulcer Heal," which was also pretty silly, since it was for stomach ulcers.
5. At some point after finding out it was a fistula, I tried Silicea, a homeopathic remedy referenced on the old thread. (I found the same page another poster did). No effect on the fistula.
6. One thing that MIGHT have had an effect is a supplement called Healose, which contains a blend of things including "glyconutrients," sugars which are used for the cells to communicate to one another. It stimulates the immune system and the rebuilding of cells. It's a good supplement, but I couldn't call it a cure for fistulas. When I experienced my remission, I'd been taking Healose at high doses for almost 3 months. But, I tried Healose this time around with no effect. It's also extremely expensive. Maybe I should have saved it for after the surgery!
7. Acupuncture is the only thing I know for certain has had an effect on the fistula. I started seeing an acupuncturist last August for other reasons, but at times I have had her treat the fistula. The point she treats is called "Du 1" (it's right between the anus and the tailbone). Every time she treats this point, I have a reduction in swelling and drainage, and this last time, it took away the pain and spasms I was experiencing. However, it's never caused the fistula to actually heal. On the other hand, we never tried treating that point for 10 days straight like they do in China.

So in summary: As you can see I'm very into natural medicine, and I exhausted every avenue that I knew of. But I don't seem to be able to heal myself, and obviously my condition is getting worse (it never caused me pain in the past). So I'm going into surgery knowing that I tried what I could, and this is my last resort. I'm pretty much convinced of what they say, that this condition requires surgery and nothing else is going to do it.

I would say that if you are having pain, and you are waiting for your surgery, and you can get in to see an acupuncturist to get Du 1 done - go for it! Because I would be in agony without it right now. I may also have her treat this point after surgery, because it obviously promotes a strong healing response in this area of the body. So I'm thinking it may promote faster/better healing afterwards.

If you are absolutely set on trying an alternative treatment before resorting to surgery: acupuncture is the only one I would recommend. Don't waste your money on supplements or external treatments. Go in and have Du 1 done for 10 days straight, then reassess. I would warn you that this might be a very expensive road to nowhere, but out of everything I tried, it's the only one I'm SURE had an effect. Everything else? Is pretty much useless. Also, the acupuncture is very relaxing (I LOVE my treatments!) and the practitioner may be able to clear up some other health issues for you, so it won't be a total waste.

Whew! Well I think that's enough for now. Hopefully some of this information is useful to others who find this thread. I am sure I've forgotten things I wanted to say, and I still have a bunch of questions, but I'll post those later.

Best of health to you all --

Jenn

EDITED: To correct the name of the acupuncture point.
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Posted 05 May 2006 - 09:39 AM

oops, I should have read this thread first!

I noticed the original fistula thread was closed and literally just posted my update as a new thread here:

http://ibsgroup.org/...261/m/223103432
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Posted 05 May 2006 - 12:49 PM

Hi Gang: Nice to see everyone. My Seton is almost all the way through now. only about 1/2 inch to go. Doc is not tightening it, as I have to pull on it daily. this can be a bit of a problem, since it is now quite long and can get caught. I was on my tractor yesterday and shifted to mow a hill and it got caught. not much one can do until one gets the tractor on level ground. That's an ouch.
I am at abcess #6 for the fistula, with another abcess forming on the other side. Waiting to see if it gets big enough to do anything about. just tender now, and has been for several weeks. My seton is now 4 months with about another 2-4 weeks to go.
My doc said it will help prevent "leakage", but so far, i have to wear panty liners due to rectal drainage and leakage.
I can tell anyone looking at a seton, it's not bad at all. very little discomfort. it does take quite a bit of extra tub time, and is rather inconvenient when working, but I would do it again vs the drain I reacted to.
Rmember, this is something you can put "BEHIND" you!
Cycleman: Did your phantom pain turn out to be a nothing? Sure hope so!
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Posted 09 May 2006 - 10:52 PM

Wow, how nice to see this thread re-opened. I was sad to see it close and kept hoping someone would start it again... thanks, Fistulette! And best of luck with your coming surgery. Thanks also for sharing your experiences with natural fistula remedies; I've been wondering about those for a long time.

I am now 15 weeks post-surgery and I still have many days with worrisome pain/aching, weird feelings, itchiness, often 'inside', etc. -- some days worse than others, some better. (Today is a bad one!) But I haven't yet noticed any other 'visible' symptoms, so I still haven't gone back to the doctor and I'm just dealing with it. Don't know what else I can do! Pretty frustrating. I always feel better after reading the words of the other old-timers here like ObsessedWithAbscess and Blueskys who give me hope that it takes a very long time to fully recover and that bumps along the way are common. I hope to read more updates from you guys.

Isdapous, your progress sounds good - glad you're improving! And best wishes to all of the new folks -- you'll find a lot of good support and information with these people.
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Posted 09 May 2006 - 11:44 PM

http://www.ibsgroup.org/ubb/graemlins/wave.gif Hi CycleMan,

I am 26 weeks post-op, and I still have those off days. I will tell you what helps me when I have a bad day, I head for the tub. I find that really helps me with the itchiness, weird feelings, tenderness, etc. A good relaxing 20 min. or so soak in warm water. Put my favorite music on, dim the lights if at night, and just enjoy every minute. I never took so many bathes as I have had with this fistula/surgeries ordeal. But I have come to really enjoy them.

It really can be such a slow process of dealing with and healing after fistula surgery. But it does get better, just takes a lot of time and patience. More for some than others. Since you haven't noticed any visible symptoms, you are probably fine.

I went back to my doctor twice because I thought I wasn't healed, but he now has me convinced that I am healed as much as I am going to be. But all in all, it is definately better than having the fistula/abscess and all that goes with it. Now do you still have any seepage at all? Gosh the things we talk about. Lol.

Good Luck to you with your recovery, I am sure that each day will get better for you. Before you know it, if you aren't all already, you will be dancing http://www.ibsgroup.org/ubb/graemlins/dance.gif in the street.

Take care.

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Posted 10 May 2006 - 05:24 PM

blueskys -

Thanks so much for the encouraging words. http://ibsgroup.org/infopop/emoticons/icon_cool.gif It really helps a lot to know that the bad days are common for other people even many weeks or months after surgery, but I hope you won't have many more of them. I am exactly the same way, and some days it seems that I'm looking forward to my evening soak in the bathtub all day long. It's pretty sad when that's the highlight of a person's day, ha ha, but I do enjoy them -- very peaceful.

I suppose we have to trust our doctors. Like you, I went back to my doctor (a week after the surgery) because I was panicked about the way I felt, but he said it looked fine, so I'm reluctant to call again.

I don't notice any 'seepage', but I'm not really sure what to look for. Is it something you can see or touch, maybe like a stain that gets on clothing? I'll tell you what I DO notice, and I don't know if it's the same for you or anyone else, but my rear end sure seems to sweat a lot more since the surgery. http://ibsgroup.org/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif (We talk about the craziest things here, ha ha ha.) And I'm talking about the entire butt, including both cheeks. Sometimes I worry that I have drainage or something, but I think it's just sweat. Strange!

Continued good luck and healing to you, and thanks again for helping me to be PATIENT. http://ibsgroup.org/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
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Posted 10 May 2006 - 09:57 PM

Hello everyone,
I am new to this and I have found this dialogue extremely supportive and helpful. I have a fistula and I am extremely frustrated. have never had this before and I would like to share what the doctors have said to see if any of it sounds weird to you.
7 months ago I had a baby. 6 weeks after she was born, I discovered a lump on my perineum the size of a grape. It was purplish. Sorry for the graphic details... The day after my 6 week post-delivery checkup was when I discivered it. At my 6 week appt, my OBGyn said I was healing just fine after having a baby even though I had experienced quite a bit of perineal injury during labor. Anyway, just thought it was weird that she didn't notice it since it was the size of a grape the day after my appt. Anyway, I went back to my OBGyn a week later for her to check it out but he was on vacation so I saw the nurse practitioner. She told me it was just an ordinary cyst and to soak in warm water a lot and it would erupt and heal. Well a few days later, it did erupt and there were about 2 tablespoons of liquid. I thought phew! now it will heal! Well, it didn't so my OBGyn at my next visit tried silver nitrate to cauterize the wound, thinking it was still from an erupted cyst. The open wound remained. i saw her again a few weeks later and she thought I had an anal fistula. She claims this is all unrelated to being pregnant and childbirth. I think it was due to the trauma from childbirth an dthe trouble I had pooping and wiping while I was healing. But anyway, she referred me to a colorectal surgeon who looked at it and in his opinion, it was an inclusion cyst but he wasnt totally sure, so we scheduled a surgical procedure where he would exaine for a fistula, do a biopsy, and explore. During the surgery he determined it was a cyst and re removed it. I was relieved and happy until...the thing came back. I saw the surgen twice since and he is now pretty certain it is an anal fistula. The next step is he is going to have me go to a radiology lab where I will have a fistulagram to see how deep / high it is. Then we will decide what to do. I then spoke to my OBGyn and she says the fistulagram is fine but to not opt for anymore surgery. SHe says she knows it is frustrating, but that the surgery is only successful 50% of the time and it still may heal on its own. I have been also searching for a homeopathic remedy. Can anyone tell me their opinion as to what I should do? Can anyone share their experience with me if it is similar? It is such a frustrating feeling having this thing and it makes me feel so ugly and unhealthy. Is there hope for this thing to go away without surgery? The surgeon said depending on what we find, he could treat it with a fisulotomy or, with the use of a seton.
Thanks everyone I know this is a long posting but I am at wits end!
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