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im giving it up

Posted by lalnunzira khawlhring , 22 January 2020 · 2001 views

i really need help

hi, ive been having ibs for more than 6 years now with no significant improvement even with advise and help of doctors.Initially ,i had flatulence problem in 11 standard, i used to be very embarrassed in the class and skipped the remaining classes in my school.Because of this painful and embarrassing ibs, i lost my girlfriend, friends and have no paln and passion to live ,im in my final years in college and i just want to give up this life because of this horrible problem,i have thought of suicide many times even now I dont know what to do im in a very serious condition.please help me, im not even motivated to live anymore,i think of committing suicide every day every hour.

Mar 17 2020 03:56 PM
Listen to me please. I am not a professional here and I am a bit intimidated if my words will be proper but I will speak from my heart here. I know it is hard. It is really hard but you can fight this. Nobody of us knows what the future brings. You cannot know for sure that somehow you won‘t stumble across a cure at some point. I know it looks so unlikely now but some people got to cure themself from cancer... Even if there is no cure don‘t make the mistake of thinking that you don‘t matter. You matter to me and I am a stranger that doesn‘t even know you. You matter, we are all in this together. I too have lost friends and dear family members due to this but I‘m slowly starting to realize that it happened for a reason. I deserve better than superficial people in my life. I too have lost my boyfriend and my job. And my honor got bruised big time. I too have been on my knees thinking I can‘t fight this. But I disagree now. Please no matter what you do in life don‘t forget your worth. You will have friends again and you will be loved again. If you finish college or not is not important but it does tell me that you have been a fighter through life to get there. You might be like myself and be very harsh to yourself and feel embarrassment more than it is healthy for us. I used to be paranoid if people can smell me. Please put yourself first and your needs. if you wanna continue talking you can write to me A message if you like. Good luck. I‘m cheering for you. Truly
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Please don’t give up! I have been dealing with this for over 20 years and it’s awful- it really is - but there is still so much good in life. I can’t tell you how many times I have had an “accident” while I am out in public - so horrible - but I have learned to deal with it. There are people who will understand. There are always new possibilities. Please seek help from a doctor or a counselor to work with you. You may be able to help someone else in a similar situation. Please don’t give up.
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Apr 23 2020 02:13 PM

i wanna give up too. it's hell. i understand. my quality of life is 0

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