Posted 26 December 2017 - 02:38 PM
Posted 27 December 2017 - 06:12 PM
The obvious solution would be to stop watching scat, or porn in general. Once you stop associating her with her IBS-D, and still like her, then it might be appropriate to make a move on her. Maybe you'll tell her one day and you'll both laugh about it.
Anyway, definitely don't make her problem worse with your fetish.
Posted 30 December 2017 - 10:42 AM
Ashamedpeer, you need a psychologist who can help you, someone with knowledge of operant conditioning techniques, cognitive behavioral therapy. It's nothing to be ashamed about, we're all different. But if this is bothering you, and you don't want to feel this way, you should find help.