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Hi there,Im 18 and for the first time in my three years of being sexually active i am suffering something similar to zero sex drive.I have been with my b/f since april and sometime during the summer i began noticing that i had hardly any urges for sex anymore. I put it down to the intense stress of my a-levels. However, not long after that i changed my pill from dianette to Yasmin due to headaches, and Im wondering if maybe that has something to do with it too as my usual drive just hasn't returned.Its not like I don't find my b/f attractive, because I do! But the sex isn't always "amazing", so maybe that is giving me little motivation too...But i used to really enjoy it!This may sound like a small problem, bit its really getting me down. I used to enjoy sex so much and its starting to affect the way I feel about the relationship. I want to be with him, I dont want to split up. But i just dont know what to do about this problem! Its like i just have no energy to do it, or just dont feel 'the need'. Sometimes it really feels like i have 'little desire' to have sex with him, but i just dont understand this because apart from this, he makes me so happy!Please help!! Any advice would be appreaciated!I'm considering trying to herb 'ginseng' as I heard this can help...Claire.XX