I'm sorry that I don't have a really good answer to help you out. Maybe something like Gas-X or something else that helps keep gas down might have a good effect on you? I was diagnosed with intersitial cystitis a few years back and it's an irritation of the bladder that's not caused by an infection, but it causes me to have to pee quite a bit. What helped was DMSO treatments in my bladder. They were horrible when I went through them, but in the end they helped keep me from peeing so often. What they do is put a catheter in your bladder and inject DMSO, then you have to hold it for a certain length of time (not easy to do!). They increase the time with each treatment. Eventually, somehow it helps to expand your bladder.