I'm currently taking care of my 78 yr. old aunt. She's got IBS and mild dementia, as well as high cholesterol and high blood pressure. I'm trying to monitor her diet and keeping her off dairy foods as much as possible. She takes 8 different drugs every day, and she has diarrhea attacks almost every day.My problem is how to cope with these attacks. It seems that she gets no warning at all, and by the time she rises from her chair, she's already messed herself and the mess trails all the way to the bathroom. Other times we've been out of the house and she's messed in the car, in the restaurant, and in the stores.I need some advice on how to control these attacks, and also if there's some protective clothing I can buy for her. She has ruined many of her clothes.This is my first time on this board and I'm glad I found it. I'd appreciate any help and support that anyone can give.