methical,I am in my senior (5th and final) year of college and I started having IBS a couple years ago. I noticed most of my anxiety would happen at school and I would have panic attacks while going to and from my classes, and sometimes I would run out of my classes because I was having irrational fears that I would throw up in front of everyone. An IBS related symptom of mine is that: severe nausea. I told my GI doctor and he just nonchalantly wrote me out a prescription for 20mg of paxil. I didn't take it because I was nervous about going on a drug that was going to do things to my mind. I went to a psychotherapist instead, and after I decided that was a waste of time, I decided to go on the paxil. I did a lot of research, measuring the pros and cons. I went to search engines and typed in paxil, and side effects of paxil, and things like that, and I read a lot about it. I also talked to people on this board and got their opinions and accounts as you are doing. After a month, I decided to go on the paxil, but I called my GI doc and got put on 10 mg instead of 20 because I am tiny and knew that 20 would be way too much. From advice from someone on this board, I started taking 5mg at first. This is because the side effects are kinda rough at the beginning while your body is getting used to the drug and weening yourself onto the drug helps reduce them. My cousin was given 20mg when she went on it for social anxiety disorder a few years ago, and she just took it, not knowing that it was too high of a dose for her little body, and she ended up sleeping for 72 hours straight! Her parents took her to the er and they told her that it would go away, and to go on 10 mg instead. Both of us don't even weigh 100 lbs. Also, what I found to be important besides taking half the dose at the beginning is taking the pill at night right before bedtime, so you sleep through the peak of the drug. I was able to sleep right through the nausea, severe drowsiness, dizziness, etc. After a couple of weeks, the side effects went away, and I felt fine. I don't have to take it at night anymore, I basically take it whenever I remember to. It helped my IBS a whole lot too, and now it is the only drug I take for my IBS (besides donnatal that I take rarely). For me, 5mg was enough to curb the IBS symptoms and make the panic attacks go away, so I just stayed on that dosage for a few months. It was just recently that I began taking 10mg because the neurologist thought it might get rid of my migraines. I am now on 10mg but it's not helping the migraines, but going up from 5 to 10mg didn't give me any weird side effects.I have had no bad sexual side effects, no long term side effects that are still lingering at all, and I am completely myself, yet free of all that irrational anxiety stuff. I was really afraid that the paxil would put me in la-la land and I would not be "me" but that is not what it did at all. It is important to note that every antidepressant has a million side effects, and a lot of them contradict each other (i.e., weight gain/weight loss, constipation/diarrhea). I talked to a paxil CR drug rep at the doctor's office I work at and she said that when they do their studies on the pills, they have to list every single side effect that a person in the study had while taking the drug. Someone could have had a bee sting and they have to list the swelling from the bee sting as a possible side effect of the drug. So just keep that in mind when you are reading the side effects of the pill. I have heard that it sucks getting off of paxil, and that was one thing that I really took into consideration before going on the pill, and I decided that helping my IBS and anxiety right now is more important than getting off of the pill in the future. I know it will probably not be fun, but I probably won't die from it.Everyone's reactions are different, so just because some people have good experiences doesn't mean you will, and just because people have had horrible experiences doesn't mean you will. Also, when I first started on it, even the 5mg gave me bad side effects throughout the day, even though I slept through the worst of it at night. I have to drive about 20 minutes on the freeway to get to my school, and for the first couple of weeks, I kind of felt like I was in a video game when I was driving. I was mostly out of it, and during that time, I was also trying to get through finals (I probably didn't pick the best time to start the drug!). It was hard to concentrate in class, and I felt somewhat out of my body, my mind felt like it was elsewhere. I still managed to be on the President's Honor List, so it wasn't unbearable.If you do decide to take it, it might really help you, but just be aware that you will suffer some side effects, and just stick with it for a couple weeks and hang in there and the effects will probably go away. Now I forget to take mine some days, and about the 3rd day of not taking it, I begin to feel weird and think, "oh, I think it's time for my paxil" and a lil while after I take it, I feel completely fine again. Good luck with it, and I hope it works well for you.