I'm not going to tell you not to try Effexor XR because everyone's different, but I will tell you to be careful if you do. I took Effexor XR for a couple of years and had numerous problems with it. It seemed to work well at first, but then I ran into some major problems. I ended up like an alzheimer's patient. It's taken over a year to regain my brain and I still don't think it's as good as it was before. The worst part of taking it was (not that the side effects were bad enough) but coming off of it, I was weaned off of it like I was supposed to be, and I still might as well have been trying to get off cocaine or heroin, it was that hard on my body. I don't know if the regular Effexor is as bad as the XR in terms of withdrawl.