Hey everyone,yeah, i'd have to agree with midge and huggenkiss on this one. Best to be up front about it all, cause he'll probably end up thinking that it's something to do with him, and that you're not really that fussed for being with him.If he's into you, he'll stick about. I've been with my guy for over a year, and the first night he stayed at mine, I had my head in the toilet! Though I do sympathise. Even now, and everything we've been through and all the #### he knows about me (forgive the pun!), I still get worried if I'm not feeling well and im meant to stay at his place (which has an ensuite bathroom). Usually, I just go back to my place. (which does annoy him, but it makes me feel more comfortable).As for the dating market, I really dunno what it's like for guys. I haven't found that it's really been bad as a girl - most guys are pretty understanding.