Hi there. Great question! I used to be afriad of going out to eat because I feared that I would suffer an IBS flareup right afterwards. But...I have learned a few tricks to help1) Check out the menu online before hand if you can. This allows you to plan what you are going to eat in a calm, no-rush, not-starving manner. 2 ) Always start your meal with soluble fiber (bread, pasta or rice). This should be readily available at any restaurant.3) DO NOT OVEREAT! I recommend that you order some tea to start (peppermint would be ideal, but any tea would work). The act of slowly sipping on your tea will likely slow down your eating and help you not to overeat.4) And finally, do NOT be afraid to ask the wait staff about ingredients in food, etc. You are paying for it, so you have a right to know what's in it!I have a blog, www.eatandbe.com that I update daily and because I love to go out to eat, a lot of my posts cover the topic that you are curious about. YOu may find it helpful. good luck!