What can you do if your husband thinks your "tooting" is gross... what can you do if you have IBS and pass wind lots??? This is a sincere question, if I do not pass wind when I need to my guts feel like they are going to explode.. it is absolutely horrible... I ate bean burritos last night, and the rest is history...it has been a dreadful day today due to the beans... I haven't eaten them in months... but sometimes I want to... I cannot spend the rest of the day in the washroom, can I????