hi i have put a few post's up but to be honest i am so fed up with the years of trying to find out how to make myself feel better the money i have spent on endless buying at the chemist hopeing that this time it will work loads of prescription drugs that dont work,no life no job,so hard to have a bowel movement sometimes i dont have a bm for over a week and thats with takeing lacsatives every night,suffering every day its endless never knowing if it will ever go away.i really want to have my large bowel out now as i have had 5 years of misery and dont want to go on like this,if i mention this to my doctor can they refuse it?as i really feel this is the only way for me as im getting extremly depressed to and i have 2 children and i feel such a burden on everyone because none of them understand.please if any of you have asked your doctors or have any advice for me please reply am so at a loss with this now.