hey sarabelleI can understand completely what you're saying. I wouldn't say I have an anxiety disorder pre se, but because of previous IBS issues, there are some situatoins that scare me (particualrly those I don't control).Like the others say, there is no one way to fix IBS. There is no cure. But there are some treatments that can help, different things for different people mostly because IBS really is different for different people - what works for someone with primarily diarrhea might cause huge problems for someone who is primarily constipated and those of who alternate have to find yet something else.best advice is to read around the board and see what makes sense and then do mnore research and talk to your doctor. ask a lot of questions, be as specific as you can with your symptoms (remember, we've heard it all before!)one suggestion for you is to look into hypnosis. Like many people on the board (but certainly not all) i have found it tremendously helpful not only with my symptoms but also with breaking those thought patterns. It sounds a little out there I know but there is a lot of research done on it.