hey. welcome to the board. I know this sounds bad - learn to live with it. But you may be able to just that. Some people have a lot of success with things they learn about. Some people less. Here's a few things that I've seen people talk about - Fay mentioned some above too. Best advice is to read through here, ask questions and see what might work for you. Talk to your doctor about these too especially if it is something you are unsure of. Remember, even natural herbs have side effects sometimes.- anti-diarrheals like Immodium. You can even take it as a preventitive measure. Some people take 1-2 (or more) daily to control the D. It is safe to do this but can of course cause constipation. There are other prescription drugs too that can help (don't remember names since I'm IBS C/D so immodium is about the right thing for me)- other medications like lotronex. it's just coming bakc on the market for IBS D and will be carefully prescribed but it migt be something to look into- anti-depressants and anti-anxiety drugs - because the gut is affected by serotonin levels like the brain (its another nervous system), these medications help by controlling the serotonin. some people also have true depression or anti-anxiety disorders along with the IBS and find treating those help the IBS too. Others just find taking the right medication at the right dosage helps the IBS- food allergies or intolerances - there are foods people avoid or just can not tolerate at all. not every food though is the same for every person so you need to figure out your triggers and problems. there is a lot of good info out here on that.- hypnotherapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, biofeedback - these and other mind/body therapies help the body also control the nervous system. I'm trying the hypnotherapy and can actually get my body into a more relaxed state - not someting I could trying other methods like exercising, deep breathing, etc. A lot of people have success with these but like medications, you might have to find the one the is best for you. Check the Hypno and CBT forum (look at Hop to at bottom of page).and more. I'm just throwing out some. mostly so you can see that there are options out there. Make sure to read up and check things out. You want to be sure that whatever course you try is safe.Oh, I almost forgot calcium!! A lot of people have had wonderful results using calcium carbonate supplements which constipate (Fay mentioned this). Definitely check into this.good lucknancy