ditto-you must be new to the board....public situations, which include riding in a car with others, I would say make up 95% of the reason(s) we post here..to try to get ideas, support, etcso- you are not alone, this disease is confining. Do what you can-drive yourself and meet others, only ride with those that understand- and try some of the other medications, etc you read about here (my advice) I have used a porta potti or heavyplastic bag in the back of my van many times...and it is so amazing all of the places you go where there are no public restrooms, or what is there is way too minimal for the amount of people (wait in line and so on)hang in there...join us here for ideasjp.s. caltrate plus has really helped me too!