I'm in the same boat, but I know one thing. Neither of us are failures. Remember all great people had to go through the roughest times to become greatness. Ghandi starved to bring freedom to India, Dr.King endured harsh brutality to improve civil rights, and Jesus died on a cross to spread the love of God. What do they have in common with us? At one point in time they wanted to give up. Even Jesus ( Yes! The same Jesus who raised the dead and casted out demonic forces) when he asked God to take this cup from him. Just like them we will overcome this because their is a light at the end of tunnel. In truth we are failures when it comes being losers because we are fighting daily to live despite this illness. So in reality we are fighting to win which is what winners do.I don't have a job , I live with my parents , I have no girlfriends , I am turning out to be a failure In life.