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I think your husband is mad at you for not telling him when this first happened, even though you were just starting to date. Now, he wants to get the whole story from the jerk, if and when this jerk calls back, tell him that "YOU DO NOT EVER WANT HIM HIM TO CALL YOUR HOUSE AGAIN, IF HE WANTS TO TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND, CATCH HIM SOME WHERE ELSE", and have a very serious talk with your husband about how you feel and how hurt and scard you are that this jerk has your # now!! I know you feel guilty, but that was a long time ago, and he took advantage of you and God only knows how many other women, STOP FEELING GUILTY, AND GET MAD! I'm so Blessed to have my husband, he's taught me 2 very important things, and that is: NEVER LET ANYONE HURT YOU IN YOUR HOME!Your home is your safe place and you should ALWAYS feel safe there!The second is, NO MATTER WHAT HAS HAPPENED IN MY PAST, I AM A GOOD AND LOVABLE PERSON, AND I DESERVE TO BE TREATED WITH LOVE AND RESPECT! But, let me tell you this, all men are crazy, your husband may have given that jerk his # just to get your reaction, he probably didn't even think about how scard it would make you, he probably really just wanted to get your reation to this jerk, you know "get even with you for not telling him" and maybe find out what the jerk has to say too. Men are all crazy, they don't know what they're doing most of the time, and this is one of those times. Talk to your husband, tell him how you feel! God Bless and watch over you,i hope this helped a little.
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