I am a nanny with a family who knows a good amount of my ibs issues. However they do not know certain symptoms like the daily incontinence and severe nausea. Sometimes i need to take off once in a blue moon bc of these plus the depression that goes with it. I dont want to tell them exactly why but feel i get the "its just ibs can you come in for a while?" Response or can you come just relax here and watch the kids. I just feel it comes across as no big deal, they get upset, and then I obviously feel guilty. There is really no HR department (besides them) so its hard to separate the two. Justtt feeel down. Wish everyone without ibs understood just how bad it takes over your life.