Hey Jane! Im in a similar boat to you, i have IBS-C and tried various things, i should be changing my birthcontrol soon too to see if that helps and its been a rocky road! im also in the UK! and i have poridge before i go to bed to see if that helps! if you think you have a lactose issue the best thing is to cut it out for a day or two to see if it makes you any better... i also thought i had a lastose problemand get gas n pains, i tried soya milk but i came to the conclusion that it wasnt milk, everything most days seems to agrivate me LOL ive been on probiotics and all sorts,so the only thing i can think of thats making me feel not so good is my birthcontrol...roll on the 23rd as its the only appointment avaiable GRRR x