You said that there are medicztions that can stop or slow down the urge to go to the bathroom. I don't want that. I think maybe u misread my post or maybe I said it wrong. I don't want to stop the urge to go, I just want to be able to go. I want to able to have something come out of me when I get that urge to go and I sit on that toilet. Cuz it's like let's say today i get the urge to go and i go to that bathroom and I'll sit there pushing and pushing and nothing comes out, it won't be till maybe tomorrow where I'll get the urge to go again and I'll actually do something and then I won't get the urge to go again for days. I think this is my major problem. That my stuff is not coming out enough times like it should and because of the stuff staying in my system when i put new stuff in my system since there is already old stuff in there, everything is building up in there and that's what my system can't handle.Because last night at dinner my wonderful mother stuffed me with to much food that I told her I didn't want. I had served myself and I ate all that I served myself and I was fine. Nice and full and felling fine, but here she came saying, "have some more, have some more, because I don't want to have to eat all the rest of this, cuz it's to much." And even though I kept saying NO, she put more food on my plate and I had to eat it and then of course I started to get funny feelings in my stomach. So anyway when I was done eating I immediately felt the urge to go to the bathroom and after sitting on that damn thing and pushing for like 3 minutes, it all came out and then I was fine. My stomach didn't swell up, I got no pressure in my stomach what's so ever, no pain, nothing. And then later on in the evening I had tons of popcorn and juice and I was fine. My stomach didn't swell and no pressure what's so ever. Woooo Hoooo. So I think the fact that I was able to go to the bathroom after I ate just really helped out my situation. And I think that me not having a BM as much as should be is the source of my problems.