Skrapy: That use to work for me too,eating something you know will get things going. I use to do that a few days before something big,vacations,appoinments etc. But that doesn't even work anymore. I was so desperate this weekend I had a hotdog,corn on the cob,potato salad,strawberry shortcake and two alcoholic coffee drinks. Now if I would have had all that in a restaurant or someones house I bet anything I would have been running in 5 minutes. But since I had it at home,nothing. Sure I had the urge but nothing major. I expected a major clean out.I try to stay away from laxatives but I'm starting to think that is the only way I will be able to control when I go. I don't know.It is so frustrating. And of course I have a husband who likes to travel. The other day he asked me if I wanted to go to South America with him. I just laughed and said "yea right". Can't even imagine it.