Mandarine,I had female issues for 5 years, and kept going to my regular gyno, who kept putting me off. Telling me it was just the way my peri-menopause was going.One day, I went in for a spot that showed up on one breast, and my regular gyno did not have any time to see me. The office could, however, get me in with on of the associates within that practice. While there this new doc asked me if there was anything else [other than the breast issue] I wanted to discuss, or had problems with. I did. I told her of my pain, of my anemia, of all of the things the other doc knew about for 5 years. She immediately did an exam as well as an ultrasound [my other doc had done no ultrasound] and said, 'you have bigger issues than perimenopause.' 3 weeks later, I had total hysterectomy, bladder repair, bladder suspension and bowel repair. 5 years I suffered, for what?Why do I share this? Because had it not been for seeing her, A NEW AND DIFFERENT DOC, after getting no help for that 5 years...I'd still be struggling and thinking it was just how my peri-menopause would be.IF you get no help, IF you get no answers, and know in your heart that something needs done, or that you need more help, don't wait long...find another doc. Whether it be your regular doc or your gyno. Someone out there WILL listen and help.I'm sorry you hurt so bad. Life is too short to spend it with that type of pain.~Karen