This question is for the "D" people out there. After going to the bathroom 16 times last Sunday my butt was sore! i used tucks and they help some but just the thought of wiping one more time made me feel like I would pass out. Does anyone have any suggestions for cleaning up that are less harsh? Does anyone have or tried a bidet? I'm wondering if that is a solution to the problem. I remember something called PeriCare when I was in hospital after delivering twins. Any nurses out there who knows what solution to use? Thanks from the bottom of my red butt.