Well, saw my doctor today. Still not able to get a firm diagnosis from anyone on FM, but the doctor said whether you have it or not you have stress, depression, pain and need exercise on the light side. She agreed the PT was messing me up more than helping and wants me to try other ideas (aquatics, chiropractic--my chiro. is really really good with this sort of thing.) Anyway, she is on my side but no doctor in town yet has done a true tender point test to see if I have those problems. I guess I will continue my approach like I do have it, and wait for the day that I find a doctor to confirm it.