I was suppose to be going on a hen weekend to Spain today with my good friends. After roughly a month of a bad flare up of IBS I have decided not to go.I feel so guilty, depressed and embarressed. I have wasted over £400 pounds on it and am just praying my travel insurance will cover it.Although the money isnt really the issue I was trying so hard up to last night to ignore my pain, I even had my bag packed, legs waxed and money exchanged.I am so upset. I know that a heavy weekend of drinking and eating in the blazing heat would not of done me any good at this present time. I used to love weekends such as this and feel awful because I am jealous of my friends. I feel like an old lady and I'm only 24. I made such an effort to be positive and feel I have really let myself down and forgive me for saying but feel like such a weak person.
So Upset!
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Don't talk such #### - You haven't let yourself down. After all you didn't ask for any of this to happen did you??? I am sure you're very P*****D off about the situation, as we all get like that when these things happen.Anyway, 24 means you still have plenty more time ahead of you.
Forgive me for asking but have you ever tried Clinical Hypnotherapy? I am on it at the moment and it is starting to do wonders for me (After 6 months of treatment) Maybe that's worth a try!! I know it's expensive, but I'd pay anything to just keep the IBS under control.I go on holidays twice a year with my mates, but I go on my own terms and I tell them that I'll organise it.So we normally do a weekend on Eurostar to Paris/Lille/Brussels/Bruges as it means I have a toilet right by me all the time, and when I get to France/Belgium there are MILLIONS of toilets everywhere.Or I book a holiday in St Malo, via the Cat from Poole, and it is only 5 minutes walk to the nearest bar with Toilet from the Ferry Terminal.Or I book a caravan, and it means I can be with my mates for up to 95% of the time. I let them go off and see things, but I just go to places with bogs nearby.Keep your chin up and think to yourself that it might pee down with rain in Spain at the mo
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