Hey, PJ, I don't know how else to respond, except I agree with much of what you had to say (even with the exercise thing, as I'm a little like that myself). I don't include my e-mail address as computors are a difficult forum to establish trust. I once e-mailed someone who asked anyone on the fibro board to concerning a problem she had. I was excited about it really, as she said she was from South Africa and I was anxious to help her with her yeast question. When she/he responded back, she included a website (ladyrucus or something like that), it included references about sodomy, pictures of a head with pins through it and a human skull. Perhaps I didn't give it a chance, and it was art- the sodomy message was in a foreign language so I could only read the word sodomy. I just decided not to delve any further. I sent a message back telling her I did not appreciate her website and asked for no more communication. She/he e-mailed back innocent like she/he didn't understand. I chose not to respond. So, you see, this is why I wish to remain private. I have a e-mail pal I picked out of one of the fibro newsboards that I am happy with, but I guess I don't want to complicate my life any further. I do go on chat once in awhile though, so maybe I'll "see" you in there.------------------[This message has been edited by moldie (edited 08-25-99).]