First I would like to congratulate Matt on his wedding! Good job! Ok, I myself, a 22/m from Wisconsin, just got engaged and the IBS-d is the only thing on my mind. I could not find the post about wedding suggestions so I beg that all of you lend a helping hand again. Another things is that my fiance does not know about my IBS because I am too embarassed to tell her. She knows that I am Lactose Int. but not the IBS. Should I tell her? I ususally am very good with her and if I do have an attack I blame it on dairy.PS. I just graduated college with a bachelor's in Business and I found some really nice ideas for home businesses on the BB. Thanks!