Hang in there! Remember you are doing this for yourself. Nevermind that husband of yours, I know how disappointed you must be with him. But you have another source - us - you'll get a lot more sympathy from people here who have been through the same thing. Look at it this way, now you know his limitations. Ironically, he will benefit from the results as much as you will when you are happier. As for taking a day off from work to get over symptoms, jobs take a backseat to health, always, always, always. Jobs are temporary, your health is the most important thing you have. At any rate, you'll be a far more productive worker when you are happier too.I am taking Zoloft now for PMS and love it. I had some side effects when I started - nausea/lightheadedness, headache, and insomnia (waking up early). It went away after a few days, although I had to start taking it at midday to eliminate the sleep problems. Some people never do adjust and have to switch drugs 2 or 3 times before they find one that works for them. I know two people who hated Zoloft one ended up on Paxil+Wellbutrin, and the other on Prozac. How long have you had your symptoms? Believe me if it works for you, you will love it. As for myself, I no longer resemble Mr. Hyde. My family has noticed that I'm a lot nicer to be around now. (I may reduce it now to 2 weeks a month.) My sister took it for depression and loved the results. So hang in there the results are worth it...And remember there are other places to go when you feel rotten, and need to confide or vent.